Transfem survival guide:
-Trust no one
-Be a popular exemplar
-Dont become too enmeshed in communities in case someone gets jealous and wants to destroy you
-Be rich
-Be extremely likable and sympathetic and never do or say anything
-Become ace but maintain the guise of sexual availibility
-Marry a man that doesnt exist
-Become a tradwife
-Pass and pretend not to be trans
-Hyper insular transfem sepratism
-Build a cabin in the rural montana wilderness
-Become a cryptid
-Shoot first and run faster
-DB Cooper
-Necromancy
Pursue any three above for a comprehensive transfeminine saftey
#trans #transfem #transwoman #transmisogyny #transgender #survival #queer
Reminder to people in #Europe and #Canada that there are a lot of #transgender and #disabled people in the US who could use your help right now. There are a few #charities which are going to need some heavy funding over the next couple years (the Trevor Project and ACLU come to mind), and we also have a #MutualAid hashtag right here on Fedi. Please also consider that servers in the US, like this one, are talking about relocating to a safer country, which may change our financials.
If, per chance, you'd like to help a particular transgender disabled moderator who may need to relocate in the next year, my KoFi is at...
By popular request, it's here!
FORBIDDEN QUEERIES, my new Question & Response blog is live!
https://hachyderm.io/@mallory_sinn/115029605920637964
I'll be publishing it under my pseudonym, Mallie Sinn, to keep it separate from my career and make it clear what I offer there is personal opinion and not therapy or counseling. You can read it by following @mallory_sinn or on the blog site itself: https://forbidden-queeries.ghost.io/
I am currently taking open questions from everyone at forbiddenqueeries@gmail.com or in private mentions to @mallory_sinn
If you want to support this effort or get top priority for your own question, please subscribe on the blog itself at https://forbidden-queeries.ghost.io/ or on my patreon for projects under my pseudonym https://patreon.com/MallorySinn
Title: Complex Trauma Disorder? I hardly know her!
CW: Gender Dysphoria, cPTSD
Web version: https://www.joscelyntranspiring.com/post/complex-trauma-disorder-i-hardly-know-her
Cross-Posted on Stained Glass Woman: https://open.substack.com/pub/stainedglasswoman/p/complex-trauma-disorder-i-hardly?r=2ydkiy&utm_campaign=post&utm_medium=web
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#Trans #Transgender #FtM #MtF #Enby #NonBinary #Queer #cPTSD
JD Vance rages about 'radical gender ideology' while white supremacists march along National Mall
Since there has been a huge influx of new users, I decided to write a new #Introduction and actually pin it to my profile.
I'm pushing 50 years old and I live in a Red State that is trying to make me illegal. I'm a #pansexual / #bisexual #transgender woman married to a heterosexual cisgender woman who frequently talks about the current hellscape for people like me in my Toots.
I'm #NeuroDivergent / #ND which is probably why all of these sentences start with "I".
I've worked in #InfoSec for a little over 20 years. I've had lots of roles in #SecEng, #SecOps, and #ThreatManagement. I taught myself #Perl, #Bash, #SQL, and #PowerShell. I'm decent at #JavaScript. I can read #Python and #Ruby. I enjoy automating things and turning manual processes into scripts.
I've been the primary #CareGiver to my wife for 8 years since she developed a chronic condition and went on disability.
My hobbies including #writing #paranormal short fiction, journaling my #dreams, and playing #PCGames on my laptop and #SteamDeck.
I prefer #StarGate over #StarTrek over #StarWars. Still waiting for Amazon to do something, anything with the Stargate property.
While we loved the #ArrowVerse including #Stargirl and #SwampThing, in general we prefer #Marvel over #DC.
I'm a fan of #Horror / #HorrorFam, #HorrorMovies and #HorrorBooks, especially the existential dread of #CosmicHorror or #LovecraftianHorror. I tend to sympathize with the nameless terrors. I am not a fan of mindless slashers, unrelenting gore, or torture porn. Over-the-top, egregious gore that crosses into the absurd is fine, though, so I am a Sam Raimi fan, obvs. Also, #HorrorComedies are underappreciated.
I'm slowly reconnecting with my #Pagan roots. I knew some stuff about #Tarot and had a friend who as a tree a lifetime ago and I'm trying to rekindle that.
We've got #Cats and they are our kids. I also happen to love #Frogs, but we don't have any of those.
#BLM #BlackLivesMatter
#TransgenderRightsAreHumanRights
#LGBT #LGBTQ #LGBTQIA
#ThePandemicIsNotOver
#ClimateChangeIsReal
#SexWorkIsWork
This story was written in 2013. I'd been on #HRT for a year and half and I'd only been "out" as #transgender for a few months.
In an ordinary forest sat an unremarkable pond brimming with countless identical tadpoles.
Mottle did not like blending in. “Someday, I’m going to stand out,” she said to no one in particular.
“Why? Do you want to get eaten?” exclaimed Spish… or was it Bloit?
Click the link below to read the rest if you want to.
I submitted it to a writing contest. I did not win or even get an honorable mention. Of all the things I've written, this is the one that my wife likes the best.
It seemed like a good time to post it since there is a culture war against our right to exist.
I can imagine a world where being different is celebrated.
New #introduction.
I’m Nikki.
I’m an #academic living in #UpstateNY. Love #teaching, need to do more #research.
I’m #transgender, and #transitioning.
I’m a #geek. I love #reading, need to get to #writing again (both academic and non), love #scifi and #anime and pretty much anything to do with #learning. (For some reason, on a #philosophy kick right now.)
For exercise, I love #cycling, in particular distance cycling.
Everything else right now is nebulous.
Fans of low-budget, unhinged trans parodies of comic book movies are in luck this week as The People's Joker finally becomes available to stream online.
(US only, it seems)
https://www.thepinknews.com/2026/01/21/joker-the-peoples-joker-parody-streaming/
June 14th
Flag Day and Narcissist’s Military Parade Day is also the birthday of my late friend Bebe Scarpinato - LGBTQ activist, teacher, performer, and sassy bitch extraordinaire. She loved Mardi Gras and I’m sure she would’ve thought a parade in her honor was long overdue.
I know what I’ll be celebrating on that day.
https://zagria.blogspot.com/2015/10/bebe-scarpinato-1951-activist-teacher.html
With #Pride 🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️ just around the corner, I feel we as a community, now more than ever, need to remind the world that the first Pride was a riot. Least we forget and lose our rights to exist.
Pride didn't happen because we asked politely to stop killing us. Pride happened because we said "This ends now" and took the action to make the beatings and the killings stop.
BOOSTS MUCH APPRECIATED PLEASE!
Set up this new account, and looking for my fellow trans, witchy, pagan and creative people! If that's you, or you're just a wonderful weirdo who is over 18, is pro human rights, leftist, and into connecting here and building community, give my bio a read and give me a follow, and I'll follow you back. Bonus points if you're goth!(I'm 46, and just starting my goth journey😁).
#introductionpost #witch #pagan #leftist #transgender #creativecommunity #gothmusic
A Birmingham-based nonprofit has expanded its capacity to help unhoused trans people of color.
In the #Spirit of #ContinuousImprovement; I'd like to #Propose the #Formation of the #LGBTQUIAX+RS@ #Community...
#Lesbian;
#Gay;
#BiSexual;
#Transgender;
#QUeer <<#DeepBreath>>;
#Intersex;
#Asexual #Allies;
#XMen;
#OtherNonHeterosexualPeople; and/or,
#RallySport
#VroomVRoom | The #EternallyEvolving #BadScrabbleHand
I'll #AlsoAlsoAdd... #QuoteToots; #StillQuiteCool...
🧙⚔️🤖🐺🤖⚔️🧙 | 🪐🦹🚀🦄🚀🦹🪐
Instead of an #introduction post, I'm just going to put a whole bunch of tags in here:
#adhd #amiga #antifa #audhd #autistic #c64 #chiptune #civilrights #classical #classicalmusic #coding #commodore #commodore64 #debian #emulation #europe #eu #fanfiction #fiction #foss #gabber #gamer #gnulinux #linux #linuxgaming #metal #music #openbox #random #transgender #wargaming #warhammer40k #woman #writer #writing #writingcommunity #xorg
I first met Perry when he was just 17, the youngest #trans person I'd ever known. Now he and every #transgender person in the U.S. face a mortal threat from their own government, and it's time for all of us to stand up. Thank you for taking the time to read this: https://www.defendpublichealth.org/opinion/we-must-stand-our-trans-neighbors
I believe in trans unity. Trans women and transfems have been almost universally kind to me, and I believe that we are natural allies with a lot in common. #LGBTQ #LGBTQIA #transgender #trans #TransUnity
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